Sunday, July 14, 2013

Eli's Pirate Party

This was the first year Eli requested a "friend" party and he insisted on a Pirate party :-)
Mommy made the invitations and Daddy was in charge of the Pirate flags and Treasure Hunt!
Our birthday boy had THE BEST time!!!!
He had six of his buddies there {Cooper, Jackson, Marcus, Ava, Evi, and Kinzie} plus the big girls and little siblings.  It is safe to say that all of the pirate crews had an AWESOME time!!!
The treasure hunt was fun for everyone and I think G had as much fun as the kiddos!
It began by giving Eli and his buddies their pirate buckets with their maps, eye patches and  head sashes {that G talked me into making ~ they didn't turn out too bad!}
The big girls {Alli's crew: Emma, Alaina, Lizzy and Taylor} 
had the job of tossing cannon balls {water balloons} at anyone who dared to enter Croc Swamp.
These girls took their job very seriously and had tons of fun!!!

First step of the treasure hunt, after getting on their pirate gear, was collecting 5 sea shells and then heading to the "Jolly Roger" which they had to "heave ho" into the raging sea ;-)
G was having so much fun leading the little pirates through the sea!

Next, the pirate crew had to "walk the plank"
Funny story about the "plank" ~ we found this piece of driftwood a couple weeks ago and Eli referred to it as a plank, giving us the fun idea of using it for his party.  We tied it up to keep it on our beach and our kiddos have been having a blast playing on it out there, so we knew it would be a hit at the party!

After everyone in the crew walked the plank, they had to find the buried treasure, marked with an X.
Captain Eli took them right to it ;-)
G actually buried the treasure chest and set out little shovels. 
Eli's crew had so much fun digging for the treasure for a good 15 minutes before Alli's crew
began hovering.  You could just hear the big girls' thoughts: "step aside, we got this"
but they did a great job of letting Eli's crew get the treasure out on their own.
Of course, everyone, big and little, had fun grabbing treasure out of the chest.
There were ring pops, gold dablooms, chocolate coins, necklaces, and beach balls for all.

After the treasure hunt, the kiddos had fun playing on the beach and in the water.
G took folks out in the boat to explore while I stayed on the beach and gave rides in the Jolly Roger.

Eventually, Eli was ready to eat cake and open presents.
The cake was supposed to be in the shape of a pirate ship, but it broke so the night before the party,
we quickly made another cake and just decorated it with the skull and crossbones, which Eli referred to as 
"the coolest cake ever!"  I LOVE his joy!!!
The party was a HUGE success and our sweet boy was so happy to have his buddies there with him!
We could not have asked for a better day for our little Pirate!

Friday, July 12, 2013

Luke's Health Issues {Take Two}

After his appendicitis and hospital stay in Mary Bridge in April, we assumed Luke was in the clear.
We could not have been more wrong.
After my heart surgery in January and Luke's appendectomy, 
people kept teasing us that these things always come in threes and warning us to be careful.
We figured the worst that would happen is Eli breaking a bone.
We never dreamed we would wind up back at Mary Bridge with Luke, but that is exactly what happened.
On Sunday, May 19th Luke started getting fussy and running a low fever.
Alli stayed home from school the following Monday because she too had a fever, so we didn't think too much of Luke's fever even as it persisted, despite Alli's going away.
By Thursday, Luke's fever was sticking around and he was becoming increasingly upset, 
but it was when he started shaking and shivering that I decided to call his pediatrician.
Dr. D felt that he should get labs and sent us to MB urgent care so I packed up all three kids and off we went.  Thankfully, G met us there and took the bigs home.
Luke's fever was still nearly 104 despite meds so urgent care gave him more.
The doctor who examined him felt he needed a CT scan of his tummy and sent us to the ER,
with instructions to not make any stops along the way.
By the time we got to MB, Luke's fever was coming down and he was quite playful.
In fact, I called G and told him I thought Luke was fine and we would be home soon.
When the doc came in, Luke was running around giggling and I said I thought we should leave.
She agreed that he looked okay but insisted on doing and ultrasound given his recent surgery.
He was fine during the ultrasound and flirted with the tech (same one from his appendix visit).
As we got back to the room, I asked the doc if she was going to spring us as I was sure he was fine.
Oh Boy, clearly my Mommy Radar was malfunctioning . . . the ultrasound showed intussusception,
the same thing it showed with his appendicitis.
Soon, the nurse came in to give him some Versad so they could perform an air enema to attempt to correct the bowel ~ it was horrible and looked so uncomfortable AND did NOT work despite four attempts.
We got back to the ER and met with a surgeon who decided to admit Luke and watch him through the night, in hopes of it correcting itself or trying the air enema again in the morning if he was doing okay.
Luke is a very entertaining "high" person and quite happy and giggly, not at all sleepy!
He finally fell asleep in the crib around 2:30am
only to wake up less than an hour later screaming in pain.
The surgeon came with us for another ultrasound and decided to perform surgery immediately.
At 4am, I handed my baby over for surgery for the second time in his short life.
Then I waited, by myself, in the huge surgery waiting room.
The surgery was to be laprascopic and expected to be 30-40 minutes.
A little before 5am, the phone in the waiting room started ringing so I answered it, good thing I did,
it was the OR calling to let me know there were complications and they had to convert to open surgery.
It turned out he had an internal hernia that was constricting his bowel, 
and if unfixed, would have caused the tissue to die.
I didn't hear anything until the surgeon came to the waiting room around 7:30am.
He never had intussusception, but she too noticed the thickening of the bowel where he was thought to have it and decided to investigate, she found a large mass and resected a portion of his bowel and had it sent to pathology.  At the time, she believed it to be a polyp (possibly cancerous).
Right after she left, two women (a mother and daughter) showed up in the waiting room.
I truly believe God sent them at the perfect time.  I was all alone, reeling from the news and these two women encouraged me and prayed for our sweet Luke.
Unlike with his appendectomy, I did not go to recovery but received a call telling me to return to his room.
He wasn't there when I arrived and I admit, that terrified me.
Finally, the recovery nurses brought him to his room and he was out from all the pain meds.
He had an NG tube in his nose to remove waste from his stomach, an IV, heart monitor, pulse ox monitor,
so many tubes and wires coming out of this sweet little guy.
My heart was breaking.
He woke up for a bit in the afternoon and tried watching GiggleBellies on the iPad
but was just so uncomfortable :(  Morphine needed, which helped him to sleep.

Luke spent most of the day snoozing, allowing Mommy to catch a cat nap, while Daddy kept watch.
G had to go back to the bigs in the evening so he missed Lukey finally being alert enough to snuggle.
It was like Heaven to be able to hold him again!
That night was tough but we had a wonderful nurse and the morphine and Tordol provided Luke some relief.

Recovery took much longer than expected, and we were in the hospital for 9 days.
Luke required four IV pokes and eventually received a PICC line to receive nutrition.
He truly was the perfect little patient, and all of his nurses adored him.
A couple days before we were released, his pathology came back and while it wasn't a polyp or cancer,
it was indicative of an aggressive form of Crohn's disease so GI got involved and started him on and IV antibiotic known to lower inflammation and it appeared to be working a bit.
Luke was finally released from the hospital on Saturday, June 1st in the late afternoon.
On Monday, I had to take him for blood work, that was an ordeal in itself but he was such a trooper.
The blood work was done by 10 a.m. and at noon, I got a call from his GI doc that his results were so concerning we needed to go back to Mary Bridge immediately and they would possibly readmit him.
I admit that I lost it a bit at that one, we hadn't even been home for two full days.
So back we went.  Luckily, the doctors agreed to let him go home so long as he continued to take his meds.
We had to go for periodic blood tests and see the docs the next week.
Fortunately, while his blood work wasn't improving, it also wasn't worsening.
When I went in for the follow up with GI, we learned that the Prometheus blood test was certain that he had Crohn's disease and I had to meet with a social worker to discuss next steps to raising a child with a chronic illness.  However, the doc wouldn't give the diagnosis until after the colonoscopy and endoscopy.

Finally, on July 8th, we went in for the tests and GOT NO ANSWERS :(
Luke was pretty pleasant before the tests and playing in the waiting room.
The nurses wanted to know if he was always such a happy boy!
I have to say that I got a glimpse into what my baby may be like intoxicated and it was a hoot :-)
The doc saw patchy inflammation (indicative of Crohn's) and bleeding in his stomach BUT
of the 24 biopsies, 22 were perfect and 2 were questionable so still no diagnosis but also won't rule it out.
Doc says that he is likely in remission so he will continue to see and monitor him every 3 months.

Luke is now on Zantac to attempt to help with the bleeding in his tummy.
Usually he seems fine but there are times when he is clearly hurting and it is so hard to not be able to help.
We continue to pray that God will completely heal our baby boy.

Thursday, July 4, 2013

Tuesday, July 2, 2013

I'm a big boy mama!!!

What I'm fairly certain Luke was yelling at me during his breakfast tantrum :-)
Turns out he wants to sit in a big boy chair NOT the high chair {sigh}
Our baby is growing up WAY.TOO.FAST!!!

Thursday, June 13, 2013

Alli's LAST Day of Kindergarten

Was EMOTIONAL for both Mommy and Alli!!!

As a special treat for her very last day of Kindergarten, we surprised Alli with donuts for breakfast.
This was a HUGE hit with all three little fish!

Of course we had to our standard pictures.  It is amazing to see how much Alli has grown and changed.
I don't think we've changed to much though :-)
Alli had a fabulous time at school "NOT doing any school work!" she proudly told us ;-)
Then, last night was graduation, which had me in tears it was so precious!
The Kindergarten kiddos sang the most adorable songs and recited Psalms 23 and 100 perfectly.
Despite there being 32 children, the only sweet voice I heard was Alli.



After the program, and their Vice Principal reading "Oh, the Places You'll Go," it was time to graduate.
The kiddos of Mrs. Otis's 2012-213 Kindergarten Class lined up on stage and prepared to cross the bridge to become 1st Graders . . . 
 Alli was so excited and proud to cross the bridge
and receive her certificate of completion and hug from Mrs. Otis.
Although, I think Alli's biggest joy of the evening was receiving a scrapbook from Mrs. Otis.
 According to Alli (and us too!) "Mrs. Otis is the BEST teacher in the whole, wide world!!!"
How we will miss having her as a teacher next year :*(

Alli had a blast playing with her friends and visiting with her amazing cheering section . . . Ducky Gramma, Papa, Barbie Gramma, Pop Pop, Uncle Danny, Rhonda, Uncle Tony, Aunt Jenee, Uncle Z, Cousin Ashlie, Grant and Baby Sophie!!!
Holding Baby Sophie for the first time was definitely one of the highlights of the evening.
It was such a perfect end to a fabulous first year at LCS!
She had the sweetest class!!!

Alli had such a wonderful day and evening BUT about five minutes before we got home, it hit her that Kindergarten was truly over, her class wouldn't be the same, and Mrs. Otis was no longer going to be her teacher and the tears began ~ I mean full on, gut wrenching sobs :*(
Our hearts were breaking for our sweet girl as she grieved.
We did our best to console her but she still cried herself to sleep.
Thankfully, she woke up much happier this morning, still bummed but ready to face the future.

Our Sweet Little Alli,
We could not be more proud of you and all that you accomplished this year in Kindergarten.
You made so many friends, completely came out of your shell, learned to read, write, spell, add, subtract, speak some Spanish, serve others, encourage and help your friends, memorized many songs and Bible verses and brought joy and laughter to many people this year.  We are so excited to see you blossom even further as you become a 1st Grader.  We love you so much little one!!!
Love,
Mommy & Daddy

Saturday, June 1, 2013

Home at last!!!

Now THIS is more like it . . . 
All three monkeys feeling well enough to play together in the backyard. 
God is so great!  
Garrett and I are completely exhausted but our hearts are full and we are so grateful to have the G Fisher Fam back together at home once again. 
Many thanks to everyone for your prayers and support. 
We continue to praise God for all He has done and ask that He heal Luke completely.

Day 9 {Discharge!}

We are on track to be discharged between 3 and 4 this afternoon assuming Luke can tolerate the oral version of his antibiotic at 2pm. 
Surgically, he looks great, he's eating and "voiding" just as he should. He hasn't had any pain meds (including Tylenol) in the last four days - little ones bounce back so quickly. 

The GI doc saw him yesterday and today. Further testing is needed (starting Monday!) but he suspects Luke may have an aggressive form of Crohn's disease - no sense getting too worried until we know for sure, right?

Praises:
- Luke is feeling great and eating again
- we may go home today and have our family reunited
- the BEST doctors and nurses who we will miss seeing, they have taken such great care of Luke and our family
- friends and family who have provided us prayers and support

Prayer Requests:
- Luke does not have Crohn's disease, or if he does, the doctors are able to treat him effectively
- strength and peace for mom and dad, and understanding for the big siblings
- Eli's fever subsides and Luke doesn't catch his bug
- peace and comfort for Eli's former preschool teacher's family as her husband passed away yesterday

"So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand." ~ Isaiah 41:10

Friday, May 31, 2013

Day 8


Feeling hopeful that the end is in sight! 

Lots of progress being made - drinking juice and Pedialyte, pooping, and perkier. 


Surgeon came to see us just before 10 last night to let is know that Dr. Pickens from GI would see him today and wanted to order various labs (colonoscopy likely in a couple months after he fully heals from surgery). 

They started him on Flagyl to treat any chronic bowel disease and it is a two-week course. 

He should get to try solids today and possibly go home this weekend!!!


Praises
- amazing doctors who are taking such good care of Luke and keeping us informed
- friends and family who continue to lift us in prayer help in so many ways
- Luke's bowels are working, never thought I would be so happy to change a stinky diaper
- Luke's perking up so much

Prayer Requests:
- no chronic bowel disease 
- Luke tolerates solid food today
- patience and energy for mom and dad
- Eli's health
- peace and understanding for Alli, Eli and Luke

"I can do all things through Christ who gives me strength." ~ Philippians 4:13

Tuesday, May 28, 2013

Day 4 {Morning}


Sweet Lukey is still snoozing this morning.
He had a fairly good night. We have been asking for lots of prayers and will continue to do so but I thought it was high time we ask for praises as well. Our God has been so faithful and since I spend half my day crying out to Him and the other half thanking Him, I figured I should share it all. 


Praises:
*a good night's sleep for both Mommy and Lukey
*amazing doctors and nurses who have been so responsive to Luke's needs
*wonderful friends and family who have come to sit with us in the hospital, brought us goodies, and have taken our big kids for play dates 
*energy, peace and patience as we face each new day

Prayer Requests:
*Luke will feel little pain as they give him a new IV today
*Luke will start pooping or tooting so we can move towards removing the NG tube
*pathology reports come back clean

"But I will restore you to health and heal your wounds, declares the LORD" ~ Jeremiah 30:17

Monday, May 13, 2013

Mommy's Day

We had a pretty low key Mother's Day this year but there were lots of snuggles from my little loves!
We started the morning with breakfast at my folks' and had a great time visiting with my mom, 
the most patient, loving, selfless Mom and Grandma I could imagine.
Then off to church we went, followed on by brunch at the Clubhouse with G's family.
The kiddos always love it there, especially the dessert table :-)
The rest of the day was spent playing hard outside (kiddos), working in the yard (G) and resting (Mommy).

Although the little loves were not always on the best behavior, 
they had lots of snuggles and loves for Mommy.
Lukey, my littlest love was full of giggles and kisses!
Love this little man, with a BIG personality, so much ~ hard to believe it was Mother's Day two years ago when we announced his pregnancy :-)

My bigs rarely pass up an opportunity for snuggles, which I LOVE! 
It will be a sad day when we no longer fit together on the couch.