Since the deaths of our grandmothers, we have been making an effort to spend as much time as possible with our families. This weekend, we realized how important this truly is . . . As I said in my previous post, yesterday, one of my dear friends from college lost her younger brother in a tragic accident. He was Zach's age. So young and so much life ahead of him. While we know he is now safe with the Father, it is difficult for those left behind to make sense of it. I was still trying to process that information when I went to church this morning and there my mom asked me if I had seen Michelle's blog.

For those that do not know, Michelle is one of my oldest and dearest friends. We were neighbors growing up and I have always thought of her as the big sister I never had. In fact, she and Sean (another neighbor ~ both pictured left at my wedding) are probably the best friends I have ever had ~ doesn't matter how much time passes, when I talk to either of them, it is as if we pick right up where we left off, never missing a beat.
It turns out that Michelle suffered a sudden, excruciating headache on Thursday morning. Praise God, she took it seriously and has been in the ICU since Thursday with a small (again, Praise God!)
brain bleed. Learning this took my breath away. I had just spoken with her last Sunday and we were both excited about an upcoming visit. Life is so precious and can change forever in the blink of an eye.
I shared this with Garrett's mom at church and she asked if we still wanted to get together tonight. After the deaths of our grandmas, Garrett and I told his family that we would like to start having dinner with them and Pop every Sunday. We want our kids to spend time with Great Pop and have lots of memories of him. I said yes, now more than ever I want to be with the family.
Michelle wasn't sure she would make it at one point and had this to say on her blog . . .
Life is short and precious........ Make sure your family knows you love them, tell them daily, be kind to others, and never let work or any outside factors affect the things that matter most to you.
She is absolutely right! It is scary to me that it takes something like this to make us slow down but everything happens for a reason. Right now, I am so thankful that we had the good sense to move home to be near our families. We love you all so much and are so glad to have this time together.
I hope you will pray for Michelle and her family. We are praying for a speedy recovery so she can go home and hold that adorable little girl of hers (Lauren is just a month and a half older than Eli) and her husband Jon. We love you guys!